Sunday, September 27, 2009

Emily Lydia Gould

Emily Lydia Gould was born today at 14:37. 3960g and 53cm long. Both Eva and Emily are in great shape and doing well.

Quinn even had a chance to meet his sister today...and this is his 'what do I do with her now' look.
Doesn't he look a bit devilish here?
Super cute with her tongue out...but still with some blood on her forehead.
More pics and stories to come...but I wanted to post some pics tonight. I'm pooped, and I didn't even do anything.

Jetzt geht's los, Part II

Eva started having contractions a few hours ago, we've dropped off Quinn at friends, the bag is packed, and we're heading to the hospital soon.

More info soon, when we have it. Wish Eva luck.

10 fingers, 10 toes.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

Late Summer Bliss

With Fall setting in and the temps dropping, we're waiting not only for #2 to join our family, but also for the weather to get a bit more rainy.

So, when we get a fall day like today, we head outside. We did start the morning with some inside playtime - with Quinn and his Duplos. He is really starting to play with the Duplos a lot, and if we play with him, we have to build things his way...

Today was the last home game of our local football team. Quinn had a blast the last time we went to watch the game, and with the perfect weather, we hopped on our bikes and took the few minute ride to the field.
Of course, we put on our football shirts (thanks to Mom and Dad!) and our CU hats. Since we lost to CSU, I put on my Miracle in Michigan T-Shirt on, hoping for better days of CU football while reminiscing on one of the best days of my life (almost as good as my wedding day, of course ;-).
There are no bleachers, just a soccer practice field with some goalposts, but it is still football, and it is live!
We brought our camping chairs, and Quinn took mine - forcing me to pace up and down the sideline in Ize fashion.

Quinn and his football. He loves the darn thing, and we're still playing 'touchdown' when I get home from work. I think this may be the reason my body hurts all the time...I'm getting too old.
But, it is worth it all, when you see the smile on his face.

Wednesday, September 23, 2009

C is for Cookie

Eva does it for my own good. She hides the junk food to protect me from snacking in the middle of the night.

It is a Gould thing: my dad is rather restless at night and oftentimes wakes up, and then finds himself in the kitchen snacking. When my uncle was visiting us a few years back, all three of us found ourselves in the kitchen in the middle of the night. While I rarely sleep through the night, and while I try not to snack when I do wake up, open boxes of cookies are just loud. They talk to me.

The last two days, I've seen leftovers (crumbs) of these cookies in the house, but I couldn't find the darn package. Eva really hid them good this time. Where did she hide the darn cookies. She knows not to hide them to high, for she is afraid that I'll climb on a chair in my half sleep trance to get them.

When I came home yesterday, I found a half eaten cookie...and wanted one myself. I looked...looked...and looked. Nowhere could I find the cookies.

Then, at dinner, I had an idea:

"Quinn, where does Mama put the cookies".

"Over there", he said, pointing to the cabinet where we put our games.

"Good boy". I finally found the cookies. Eva and I laughed hard and loud for a while - Eva's face even turned red.

"I knew I should have not shown him where I put the cookies."

It's a Gould thing, I guess.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Not Every Weekend can be Perfect

Lest you think that we only have perfect days and weekends...this blog post will attest to the normal ups and downs that we all go through.

First of all, Eva wasn't feeling well...with a sore throat and stuffed up nose, not to mention being ready to pop. Quinn felt the need to test his boundries this weekend, and I apparently left all my patience in the office on Friday evening. Not a great combination.
At least we could leave the weekend on a high note: One of the forest stations 'near' our house had an open house. We've been wanting to go there for a while, and we thought that this was the sort of field trip that would be good for all of us: Eva got a break from her boys, Quinn got some more fresh air, and I got to spend more time outside with the Quinn I'm used to.
It was about a 25 minute bike ride through the forest, pulling Quinn in his chariot. Of course, the first thing he sees when we park the bike is a girl eating ice cream. So we had ice cream.
I'm super paranoid when he's climbing, but he does really great, and it seems second nature to him.
One of the forest paths. When I told him this was not the path to ice cream, he immediately turned around and started running in the other direction. I think this was the only time he listened to me all weekend.
The mini roller coaster was the highlight. Quinn was the last one to get to go down...it was way past closing time, and I was getting a bit worried that Quinn would get hungry on me (and I, in my infinite wisdom, didn't bring anything to eat).

While the weekend wasn't perfect, it was (somewhat) relaxing and certainly family oriented. I think we are all (especially Eva) somewhat in a holding pattern, waiting for #2 to join our family. While we try to just enjoy the great fall weather and our time as a threesome, it is just natural to feel a bit uneasy...while you are in that 'calm before the storm'.

Friday, September 18, 2009

The Calm before the Storm

Eva is still going strong, and the baby shows no real signs of wanting to join us in the near future. So, we are trying to enjoy our 'quiet' time, before the cycle starts all over again.
Quinn got a new hat for fall, and was dorking around a bit when putting it on. We thought he looked like a Smurf (Schlumpf) ... or even worse, a Frenchman ;-)
This is typical Quinn: he sees his Papa do something (trying to fix his car) and he tries to do it himself. On this particular occasion, he went into our utility closet (Abstellkammer), got my electronics screwdrivers, and started 'working' on his car.
We knew something was odd when it got so quiet. He was quietly fixing his car...with 'his' tools.
One of my smaller cordless drills is his now too. He carries it around and 'drills'. Thankfully, we've convinced him that the only things that need drilling are on the small patches of carpet that we have...
Family pic: all of us hussied up before going to a friend's birthday party.
Mama and son.
There is finally a way for me to watch live college football games on TV. A while ago, I connected our flat screen in the living room to the computer as an extra monitor. Last week, I subscribed to espn360.com, which streams tons of live college football games.
Finally...the days of listening to radio broadcasts of the Buffs games are over.
Espn360.com doesn't stream all of the Buffs games, but I can still catch all sorts of other teams, and since they store the games, we can watch at 'normal' times.
To celebrate the occasion, I made a full on Tex Mex Fajitas meal: homemade fajitas, salsa, guac, refried black beans, and margs (frozen strawberry without tequila for Eva).
Unfortunately, after the great meal and after putting Quinn to bed...the Buffs lost. But, it was really nice to see real, college football again!




Saturday, September 05, 2009

A Walk in the Forest

Knowing that summer will slowly come to an end, we headed to the Fränkische Schweiz for a 'hike'. It is about a 40 minute drive, which for us is becoming a really long drive. After all, we practically only use our bikes for transportation and seldom need to get in the car - even on weekends.
But, we overcame our laziness of having to drive. After getting up, we packed our gear, picked up breakfast at the bakery, and hit the road.
Our destination has a sort of 'path' for kids so that they can experience different things: from walking barefoot on different things like pine cones to pebbles, to crossing a hanging bridge (the logs were connected to chains that were freely hanging), to a maze, to a huge hanging xylophone.
(Editor's note: Eva is highly pregnant now...and may be only a matter of days!)
Of course, we had to take a break and eat our breakfast...
The weather was perfect, and it turned out to be a great way to spend the morning and early afternoon. We were beat...but for some reason, Quinn was full of energy and didn't want to take his nap.
What are we going to do in winter when it is more difficult to tire him out ?

Saturday, August 22, 2009

Running like idots is healthy

Running is good. Very good.

For a while now, Quinn and I have been playing 'touchdown', a 2 year old variation of football. After losing our small, CU stuffed football, we were playing 'touchdown' with a small soccer ball.

Now that Kocka and Katja recently gave Quinn a small 'real' football (thank you!) we're taking touchdown to another level.
I'm sure the neighbors love us. We're not exactly quiet...running up and down our yard, tackling, fumbling, and chasing the ball. Ideally, I do this to help tire Quinn out...but I seem to always be the one out of breath. The little guy is getting pretty good at holding on to the ball (when I try to create a fumble).
It brings a very warm glow to my heart when I come home from work, and I can barely put my pack on the floor before I see Quinn getting our 'helmets' (matching CU baseball hats...I've got him convinced that you cannot play football without helmets...which was my trick to make him wear a hat to protect his head from the sun...).

Every day, after work, we play 'touchdown'. Of course, running like idots after a funny shaped ball catches the eyes of the neighbors, who mostly warmly smile: despite the noise, most like seeing active kids, reminding them of their childhoods. For Quinn, it is a part of his day that he looks forward to.

For me, it is the best way to unwind from work and to spend some great quality (and quantity) time with Quinn. I just wish I would not run out of breath so fast. I thought I was in shape.

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On another front, I've put the finishing touches on the room for #2. Quinn loves getting out his Bosch play tool box to help me hammer the nails in.
His toolbox contains the basics...but no drill. Guess who has confisicated one of my Bosch cordless drills? Do you think I could let him have it without the battery...no way...
Here's a blast from the past...yup...this is me...in my super cool Mobil uniform.
With daycare being closed for 3 weeks, Eva took a week and headed to her parents for some fun in the sun (and a few additional hands to take care of Quinn). Quinn is pictured below wearing his football 'helmet'. Go Buffs!
Quinn, Nina, and Frank...Quinn really took a liking to Frank...

I drove up with Eva and Quinn and stayed for the weekend...while the week alone was nice, and yes, I did enjoy eating in front of the computer, it was also great to have them back.
We did have a family BBQ to celebrate Eva's mothers birthday...and you see Quinn with Uncle Wolfgang.
...working on a puzzle with Lea...
Blast from the past II: the logic behind my baby nickname: Butterball

Not to let you think that Quinn is only running around playing football, he loves using his kitchen and cooking for all of us.
Oma got to eat all of his great meals. It is amazing how quickly he can make a pizza AND ice cream. Oh...a child's imagination.
I did take one night when I was back home to head out with Rene for a great meal: I wasn't all that hungry, but after seeing Rene's order, I also ordered the 'light' meal: Schweinshaxe! (Etwas Fränkisches, natürlich). Pork knuckle with kraut and a potato dumpling. Yummy!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

A Beautiful Day

Not to get too touchy / feeley, but today was a perfect day.

The weather was nice, we got tons done (including putting the new IKEA furniture for the new child), and had a blast. I even got to go on a short ride.

But, the topping on the cake was when I took Quinn to see a football game. Our local team had a home game today, and since the field is a few minute bike ride from our place, I wanted to take Quinn there to check it out.

We had been playing 'touchdown' in the backyard for a while. The rules change constantly, but the main ingredient is saying 'down, set, hut' and running or tackling. The little guy actually lines up with a 10 yard (ahem...meter) distance between us and actually tries to tackle. Of course, I fall over in true WWF fashion. When he runs, I rip the ball from his hands, and we play 'fumble'.

One day, he said that he wanted to 'watch' 'touchdown'...so, as a supporting parent and true CU fan, I pulled up a YouTube vid of the 'Miracle in Michigan'...still one of the best days in my life...(outside of getting married to Eva and Quinn's birth, of course). He loved it. And, he still requests football clips from time to time.

This morning, I told him we were going to watch 'touchdown'. So, he went right to the computer. No, I said, we were going to watch real players. Then he went to the TV. No...a real game.

I'm not too sure he knew what I was doing, as I loaded him up in his bike trailer and we headed to the field. I wasn't too sure how long he would watch. But, we put on our 'helmets' (matching CU baseball hats), and went to the field. The team was already playing. Quinn realizes what they were doing, starting to get excited.

He asks to sit down on the sidelines...and he sits down, takes off his sandals. By this time, I'm sitting down on the sidelines. He sits in my lap...

'Down, set, hut, hut, hut!!!'. The play is off. The player gets tackled. Quinn starts clapping furiously. 'Touchdown, touchdown', he says, lifting his hands above his head. (When we play, almost every play is a touchdown, where I lift my hands above my head in TD fashion). At this point, he is literally vibrating with exitement.

At halftime, we played 'touchdown'. Just the two of us. We had a ball. A while ago, we lost his CU stuffed football, and since then, we've played 'touchdown' with a small soccer ball. Not exactly right, but better than nothing. If I can make salsa without chili powder and jalapenos, we can play football with a soccer ball. He runs, tackles, and jumps around for fumbles like a madman. Grass stains are a standing part of his (and my) wardrobe. The little guy has no fear. He doesn't realize that I've got him by about 60kg. Saw a lineman eat a double Bratwurst.

We actually watch the whole second half. Quinn has not sat so long in his life. After the game, we played more 'touchdown'. He must have ran a marathon...I will be sore tomorrow. I throw myself around like I'm 18.

After we put Quinn to bet, Eva and I watched two great football movies: Varsity Blues and Remember the Titans.

It was a perfect day...and it was great to feel intimate again with my culture...and a few things that are truly American. Even watching Varsity Blues reminds me of home...with all of their Texan slang. It makes me warm inside.

Seeing Quinn happy makes me smile, smile from ear to ear. Now, I just need to find a way to get another small football. The little guy will be really messed up playing football with a 'Fußball'.

Go Buffs!

P.S. He'll have the CU fight song down for next season ;-)

Saturday, July 25, 2009

Cultural Experience - Sommerfest 2009

Needless to say, I was a bit giddy. In the preparations for our yearly Sommerfest, I convinced Eva to let me get a small keg of beer from the local brewery instead of the 'hassle' of bottled beer (so my argument went).

Storchenbier from Steinbachbräu is one of the best beers in Germany, and with the brewery about 2km away, it is super fresh and yummy.
You can order old fashioned oak kegs in various sizes...and the cute little guy you see above is the 15.8l variety.
There is no need for CO2...but you do need to make sure you drink it in one setting. You just need to pound these wood taps into the top and side to tap the keg...something I had never done with this version of a tap.
The top tap went fine...but shortly after the pic of me and the side tap, I gave the tap one more 'tap' of the mallet, and I succeed in pushing the rubber grommet, more or less, into the keg. The result: in 'boy and the dike' fashion, I shoved my finger in the whole to keep the tasty beer from spraying all over my lawn and flowers.
I was soaked in beer, and my 15.8l keg was about a 13l keg before it was said and done.
The flowers were very happy that night.
The weather wasn't ideal, but it was mostly dry...we played a bit outside with the kids and chatted inside.
Quinn even played nicely with the younger daughter of our friends.
All in all, it was a lot of preparation for the 20+ guests, but it was worth it. I will be better prepared for my next keg from Steinbachbräu. Next year, we just hope the weather plays a bit more nicely.


Friday, July 24, 2009

Honeydo's

In a remarkable stroke of wanting to be productive, I got a really huge honeydo off the list last weekend...painting the new child's room.
I painted in college during the summers to help pay for college, and painting takes me back to these carefree days. Get up at 6am, go to work (no shower, no shaving, no tie), come back at 6pm, run, grill, have a beer, chat with friends, go to bed.
Despite this joy of painting, when this sort of desire to be productive around the house hits me, I didn't want to stop...and painted until about 3am.
We picked a gender neutral yellow...with rag effects...what a mess.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Papa, Don't Piddle

To be honest, I'm not really sure if 'Piddle' a real word, and I'm not too sure how it is spelled. I do know that I learned it from my cross country coach in High School, Coach Webb. There were many, many great things I learned from him, and I'm sure he didn't mean for 'piddle' to be one of those lasting impressions.

Piddle, verb: to not get where you are going. to procrastinate. to waste time.

I can still hear him now: "kids, quit 'yer piddlin' " or something of the like.

So, Quinn got an envelope from my parents, and Quinn asked me if I could help him open it. Of course, I did...but it was a bit harder to get open, especially the CD. Quinn was looking at me and saying something, but I was concentrated on opening the darn CD.

Quinn repeats what he said before, a bit flustered that I'm still opening the CD. At this point, Eva is virtually on the floor laughing. I asked Eva if she knew what Quinn was saying. She says, Yes.

He said, "Papa, Don't piddle."

Swimming and Sauerkraut

Well, at least he tried it. Quinn does not like cold sauerkraut. In the hot summer weather we've had, cold kraut salad is the best summer dish.

With no good transition of topics possible, here are a few pics of Quinn and I at his swimming 'lesson'.
He waited mostly impatiently for the chance to ride on the boat...and was not happy when I made him get off to allow other children a chance.
Quinn's swimming 'lesson' consists of some singing in the group and getting used to water. Quinn likes jumping in and out of the water, and even lets me throw him into the water...
Getting thrown from the instructor to me.

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Family Road Trip: June 2009

As odd as it may seem, 3 business days after my annual pilgrimage in the Alps, we loaded up the family Skoda and headed on our family vacation. Since our first day of vacation, a Thursday, was a public holiday, it allowed us to start off with a long weekend with Eva's parents in Herbstein, which is right next to a national park.

The whole thing started off a bit challenging...as Quinn wasn't feeling well and was beginning to run a fever. But, since he was still active, eating, and drinking (e.g. his normal self), we hit the road and played tourists the first full day there.
There was also a Messerschmitt rally going through the city. It was no accident that these small cars looked like rolling bomber cockpits. After WWII, all companies that were part of wartime production had to either change their 'product' for peacetime or cease to exist. The famous Messerschmitt bombers started producing these practical vehicles which are now a cult vehicle.

Quinn's fever keep us a bit worried, and we finally broke down on Friday and headed to the doc for some help. He had a light ear infection, and he got his first antibiotics of his life. He was doing better by Saturday...
...meanwhile, Rainer and I play in the background. The house that we rented for the weekend was great for kids, and it is too bad that Quinn didn't feel well enough to take advantage of it all.

On a walk with Opa.

Even though he didn't feel 100%, he was a trooper, especially when he saw the toy tractor.

On Sunday morning, we hopped in the station wagon and headed to Hamburg to visit our friends, Mirja and Thomas and their newborn son, Moritz.

Eva and I met Mirja in Atlanta, where Mirja rented one of my rooms when she was doing her internship with Siemens. Via Mirja, I met Eva...and the rest is history...

Shortly after this picture, we left the playground. The following 45 minutes, Quinn screamed nonstop because he didn't want to go. This was the worst temper tantrum that I have experienced to date. This was, unfortunately, the lowlight of the trip.
Hopefully, this would be the exception. In general, Quinn doesn't throw many fits, but he does have my temper...and when he gets mad, he gets mad. Temper tantrum ensues.

Quinn and Eva blowing bubbles...which makes everything better.

Mirja and Moritz.

Then, it was off to visit our friends in Denmark: Keith, Manu, and their young daughter, Johanna. The hour long ferry to Denmark was a great way to keep Quinn busy...he loves all sorts of heavy machinery: boats, trains, tractors and the like. And, ferries were no different.
The Danes are known as hotdog eaters (at least that is what the Lonely Planet told us), and I was excited to get a dog on the ferry. Quinn liked eating it with his hand without the bun.
Keith and Manu took great care of us. They had a small room 'guesthouse' adjoining their house, which offered a great place for us to crash. Since it was basically mid summer, it was light from about 330am until past midnight...
Denmark, like most Scandinavian countries, are not exactly cheap to visit, but they make up for the cost with flair and quality. Even simple things like pastries or hamburgers had that extra touch that made you want more.
Quinn got to meet Johanna, and quickly become another play friend. Both had issues with 'sharing', but besides the normal 2 year old behavior, they played great together. On the ride home, Quinn wouldn't stop talking about Johanna.
Now, one if his puppets that he now brings into bed is called 'Johanna'...very cute, especially when he tucks Johanna in.
The seemingly national food of Denmark: the hotdog. Yummy. I think I had a couple every day.
The 'Hamlet' castle in Helsingor. It is named as such, as Shakespear's Hamlet takes place in this castle.
Just outside the castle, there was a small piece of beach that we stopped at to have a picknick and to let Quinn play in the sand. For a 2 year old, sightseeing is boring...looking at castles is even more dull. Building sandcastles, on the other hand, is what defines a vacation for a 2 year old.
That is Sweden on the other side of the water...
Our favorite pic of the vacation. We actually got Quinn to smile.
The summer residence of the Danish royal family. While their yard is much larger, it is full of weeds. Ours looks better ;-)
Just to let you know in advance, I'll get in trouble for posting this pic. First of all, we do normally give our son more nutrition than hotdogs and fries, despite the numerous pics with bad nutrition. Second, Eva will not like this pic of her eating this burger.
As odd as it may sound, this pic is evidence of the best burger that both Eva and I ate in our lives. No kidding, in Denmark of all places. I would go there again in a heartbeat...it was just a small burger cafe, nothing fancy, but the burgers were freshly made and were absolutely heavenly.
OK, these royal gardens had less weeds, and the hedges were amazing.
Yes, those are hedges forming the royal crest.
The hedges were so well cut and thick, that we could put Eva's camera on it to help us out with a family pic (Quinn was sleeping in his stroller).
After the royal gardens, we went to the beach. I was cold and windy, but that didn't stop Quinn from wanting to build sand castles. I got to schlepp water for him for his 'reinforcements'. He really loved giving me the buckets to fill up...
You can't go to Denmark and not do at least one day in Copenhagen. While we are not 'big city' folks, we wanted to see the city. We thought we could take a sightseeing tour by one of the many canal boats. Since Quinn loves boats, we thought he'd be happy enough to allow us to enjoy the tour.
Yes...that is our son eating cookies at 10m. But, on vacation, some rules are a bit more relaxed.
After the water tour, we walked around a bit more. Quinn had just fallen asleep, and we were super proud of ourselves that we timed it so well: Quinn was asleep, we were hungry, and there were tons of these cute street cafes for us to sit down at and enjoy the great weather...
About 5 minutes after this pic, it started raining cats and dogs. Quinn woke up, and our romantic afternoon lunch turned into a flight into a dry restaurant.
We had our raingear with us (of course), and I had my waterproof sandals ;-) so we just hit the road when the rain let up a bit. A bit later, we met Manu and Johanna at a city park, with cool stumps for Quinn to jump off of.
On our final Saturday of vacation, we headed to a medieval festival. Quinn was mesmorized by the horses.
...and the knights were cool too. Since it had rained almost all of Friday, the grounds were rather muddy. Quinn thought it was great, of course, wanting to walk through the puddles instead of walking around them. Typical boy.

On our way back to the beach. More sandcastles to build.
We had a huge bbq our last night with our friends. With the long days, we could stay outside in the relative warmth really late, and enjoy our last evening in Denmark.
We had a little bit of everything: grilled fish and sausage, various salads and veggies, beer, wine, and most importantly our friends.
As with all good things, they had to come to an end. Keith and Manu were great hosts, and they took great care of us while allowing us to also 'do our thing'. It was great to sit in their house for dinner, with all the windows and doors open, feeling the cool breeze, while Keith plays his acoustic guitar, while we start getting the kiddos ready for bed.
Our short stay in Denmark was just a tease, leaving you wanting more. The Danes are a very friendly and helpful folk. You always feel welcome. It is a very bike and eco friendly area, and I can't wait to go there again...
Unfortunately, we couldn't beam ourselves back home. We had 1000km to drive and an hour ferry in between. Knowing that no one likes to sit in a car for 1000km, let alone a 2 year old, we got up around 4am and hit the road...hoping that Quinn would sleep until the ferry to Germany.
All in all, he took it all like a champ. We made much better time than expected, and Quinn was happy the whole way. How did we do it: he listened to his favorite CD the WHOLE way home. Eva and I know the whole CD by heart.
...a small price to pay for freedom...